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Why take Revenge!

Now I am not one to seek revenge out on people for any reasons.  Yeah, I will cut them with a few words but to simple go after them and do actual damage to their reputation or cause some major bodily harm is way too much for me to do.  However I am one to say the I do believe in Karma and I have always say that what goes comes around, and it will come back to the person who did the harm to some one or to those who had not cause them harm in any way.  For me revenge is when some one who told you that they never do something in regards to you, due to one reason or another wind up having to come to you in humbleness and sometimes in shame. 

But that is not always the case especially in marriages and friendship.  Lord knows us women can be extremely vindictive towards our husbands (or at least I can be when I get marriage again).  We woman will try to and often success in taking everything away from him just so that he does not have to opportunity to share with that other woman. (Ain't that right ladies?)  However there are some husbands out there who knows how to take half as well and this often leaves the wife madder than before.  For example on the news about some weeks ago there was a story about a husband who wanted half of their possessions.  So what did he do?  He got his chainsaw and cut everything in half and this would included the couch, the televisions, the bed, the dressers, the refrigerator, stove, washer and dryer, and the plates, everything in the house which they have shared in their marriage.  Yes he literally split everything in the house in half.  (Sidebar: I want to know what the hell she did do to cause him so much angry?) 

I was on the website Reddit when I came across this joke:

There was a man who had worked all of his life and has saved all of his money.
He was a real cheapskate when it came to his money. He loved money more than just about anything, and just before he died, he said to his wife:
"Now listen, when I die I want you to take all my money and place it in the casket with me. Because I want to take all my money to the after life."
So he got his wife to promise him with all her heart that when he died she would put all the money in the casket with him. When one day he died.
He was stretched out in the casket, the wife was sitting there in black next to their best friend. When they finished the ceremony, just before the undertakers got ready to close the casket, the wife said, "Wait a minute!"
She had a shoe box with her, she came over with the box and placed it in the casket. Then the undertakers locked the casket and rolled it away.
Her friend said, "I hope you weren't crazy enough to put all that money in there with that stingy old man."
She said, "Yes, I promised. I'm a good Christian, I can't lie. I promised him that I was to put that money in that casket with him."
"You mean to tell me you put every cent of his money in the casket with him?"
"I sure did," said the wife. "I got it all together, put it into my account and I wrote him a check."

Now I had a boyfriend like him and I am so thinking about how slowly I can torturing him.  In what method to use because there are o many ways I like to try out on his butt!  And you know what is the sad part is?  That I had thinking about this for quite some time now.  Yes I have! And there are times I wish I could slip his ass an Viagra but nevertheless he is who is; and I am currently accepting new applications.

Now as a child growing up I often heard my grandmother say "Do unto to others as you will have them do unto you!"  At that time I did not understand what she meant until I reach adult hood and the older I get the more and more I find myself doing exactly that, treating those in the same likeness as I would want to be treated.  Though sometimes that is not often the case because we all will and do cross paths with some people who are just pure evil in their hearts and no matter have nice you are to them they remain evil.  I think that is where "what goes around comes around" come from and would you believe that many of us do not realizes that karma is visiting us at the time when things are not going way.  Most of us will cough it up to bad luck or something else not realizing that is Karma the lady herself playing and refusing you things that you are seeking. 

So if you don't mind revenge is not something I do not want to waste my time on.  Beside that I am not interested in blocking my blessing.  But who knows who will cause me to lose my mind, right?

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