Common Sense of It All!

Okay, so a while back some of you have read my pieces about Jonathan Rhys-Meyers (That Boy from Ireland!) and in it I mention that I watch one of his many movies called 6 Souls , and I said that it was made in heaven for me in a psychological way that I kind of in way - took it apart.  The movie was directed by Måns Mårlind  and Björn Stein  with the gorgeous star Julianne Moore (I love her in the The Big Lebowski and Boogie Nights!). Now before I could write this piece, I had to watch the movie 5 times because I did not get some of the scenes being that the first time watched it, I got scared the bejesus out of me with that whole thing that Johnny was doing with his characters.  See . . I don't watch nor do I care for scary movies so therefore every time I watched this movie I had all the lights on in the house, not to mention that I had a bat too.  Yeah, I am a scary cat and I will not even lie about that! As I was watching the movie, from what I could understand of Moore

The saying goes "Hell has no fiery like a Scorn Woman" and it is a true saying.  Ladies when we get get hurt by the man of our dreams we become a true Devil's daughter in her own rights.  Ladies we not only go after him but everything that involves him in his world including that new bitch in his life!  We go after the car, his new place and his job.  Hell we will take a skillet upside his damn head hoping that some sense will come to him before he walks his ass out that the door.  Am I right? Well at least most of y'all do.  And we do this because we are seeking that closures that he refuses to give to us. But ladies let me share with you my own heartbreak. My heart goes way back to the south side of Chicago.  We grow up together, he went away and got married and divorced.  I had a child, went away, got married and divorced.  However this man had heart and there was nothing I would have not done for him.  If he had said "pack your shit and let's go!"

Okay, so it is already February and for me I think February is the month that I personal hate to most.  This is new to me and I have been feeling this for the past 4 years.  And it is nice to know that I am not only in this. Everyone looks forward to February because it is the romance month.  My ass!  How many of your women out there was in a relationship where your guy does not celebrate Valentine's Day?  I bet that his answer is that everyday is Valentine's Day and does not show it to you.  Let tell you what you should.  The next time he wants chips & salsa, make it fresh from a recipe but also add little of paprika and grand marsala and then wait.  Leave very little toilet paper in the bathroom. See my problem was that I have been getting with knuckleheads who did not celebrate Valentine's Day. Last year I treated myself to a Valentine's Day dinner at Chipolte and got Valentine wishes from a few college boys. (That is so sweet that their mama let them go out