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Family Drama

Hello everyone,

I know the that year is coming to an end and everyone is busy with Christmas coming and the New Year coming, oh there is just so much coming at once.

I am so happy to get away this coming Christmas that I can not possibility can not find a way to put it all in writing.  If you did not have family drama during Thanksgiving then it is waiting for you for Christmas.

And don’t you just love when you have to deal with family drama? Like parties involved expect you to be involve or they get mad because you try to apply some rationality to the situation that they are either not able to see or not willing to admit the solution.This is the killer part ladies and gentlemen, both parties or all parties believe that they are right.

Here is anything that is amazing about family drama: if you voice your opinion they get mad at you. And stay mad at you! Am I right?

Y’all I got family drama in the house but then again when is there never drama in the house.  Uncle against uncle, sister against sister, sister against brother, daughter against mother and sometimes younger uncle.  And what are we fighting about in the house? Probably about some of the same things that is happening in everyone else’s house: who did not clean the kitchen?, where is your share of the rent and utilities, wash your ass, take your ass to work, etc.

Actually how long does family drama last? Does family drama ever ends? In out house never thought we do keep the peace by everyone staying in their own room. Sometimes.

Can’t everyone just get along for the holidays and have some fun? Look, there are people in the whole who are in a much difficult situation than your family drama. Each day we hear something horrible from news and it is often heartbreaking.  Family drama is not heartbreaking but malicious. You lose your blessings and those blessing are very valuable.

So for this Christmas, for those of you who are a war with that certain family members, open your heart and give forgiveness. And together with that person walk into the New Year with new understanding and love.

To everyone around the whole, I wish a Merry Christmas and joyful Happy New Year.  And may we all ask the Lord to let us have a better year in 2019 than what we had in 2018.

See y’all in the New Year.



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